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Time off..

| Wednesday, June 23, 2010
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YAY!!! I am going to Calafornia tomorrow for vacation with my brother, eight days days away from all this compulsive routine...(not really) but YAY!!! So, I have eight whole days to do nothing but have fun, relax, have fun, relax and have fun and relax!!! So, maybe you won’t see blog updates in next eight days.

Why Cali? Because I love it there, plus gotta go visit my buddy with whom we would be attending A R Rahmans' Jai Ho Concert. It is going to be great.. just like the last time around. I think concerts makes a lot of fun with the right clan, and this is such a one. Anyway I am sooo looking forward to it.. see you all in a week and a day :)

Time off..

Posted by : Jegan
Date :Wednesday, June 23, 2010
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Rushed?

| Monday, June 14, 2010
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I am sorry my Angel, if I had hurt your feelings by rushing myself onto you now, at this juncture in your life, when u need more time to be you. I am sorry for EXPECTING you to be as fast as me in the willingness to open up your emotions. I do understand now and was not doing it intentionaly. I hope you someday will understand that. Or, maybe you do already. In any case I wanted to put it here in words, I am sorry if I had rushed you, I really did not meant it like that.

And really, I am glad that I have said what I wanted to say to you, for I believe in honesty/openess. I think that courting (coutship)is important to get to know your partner before comittment either through marriage or having a child. I cannot understand it when girsl/guys these days have this idea where they just meet and want to skip all the courtship stages either by trying to convince others or themselves that they are in love and that by leap froging the process it is truly because " you are the one."

I don't know why girls/guys are relucutant to court. Is it due to money? To take thier partner out you do not necessarily have to have an expensive dinner, you can organise a date to a Musuem, take a walk in the park, go for a coffee etc. I think that we store up huge problems for ourselves when we allow the clock to tick so loudly that we cannot find the time to really get to know the person, before taking the relationship to the next stage. I am not that way and I wanted to communicate that to you very well, thus my openess and decision to talk it out.

Relationship? What's that? I don't think many guys/girls even know the definition of a relationship (with anything). Seriously...even if you "court", (get-to-know one another), learn each others families (keep in mind even though you take on the family...the family should not be the only source of influence with you and your mates decisions, though they are one of the best people to get feedback from..), and date for a period of time....REAL REALTIONSHIPS contiue to take work, dedication/committment and the desire to grow. Some people meet for the firt time and they stay together forever and others date for a LOOOONG time and never get to know one another. Knowing this I wanted to clear my thougts to you and buid my trust in you and me, thus the openess..the choice to talk it out!

I am a strong believer in openess, honesty, yes I know! I have said it a million times but that is the truth.. to me at least.. Some relationships move faster than others because some people (like me) are more willing to be open emotionally than others. With that said, no matter who you are, it is imperative that time is taken to truly get to know your significant other...as best you can anyway. Because can we ever really say we know everything about our spouses or significant other? I believe we must simply come to a point at which we are at a level and place where we are comfortable with the things we may not know because of the solid foundation built on the things we do. And the foundation can only be built with trust and trust comes with openess.

And because, I want to be with you for the long haul and I want to be able to wake up in the morning and go to bed at night with you. I want to make you my only committment. I just don't think one can put a time line on how he/she feels about someone and when they think they want to be with them. Its emotional, mental, physical and spiritual. One can't go in a relationship afraid to ask the pertinent questions. Nor can they go in expecting the answer to be what they want it to be. We have to bend a little here and there. Its' a PROCESS... I am ready for that and wanted to communicate it, thus my openess..

In life.. there's always choices we need to make.. some are harder than others. but whatever we choose determines which path is next for us to follow. Some may not make sense at the moment.. but in hopes of it being for the best.. we will know one day, sooner or later.. that it is. Keep in mind, going for the safer bet isn't always the best, the greater the risk, the better the return and throughout this whole deciding process.. the heart strongly influences and almost always wins..have faith in you. Accept that you are where you are because it's exactly where you have always wanted to be.

Rushed?

Posted by : Jegan
Date :Monday, June 14, 2010
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WORLD CUP 2010!

| Friday, June 11, 2010
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The World Cup 2010 starts Today!!!!!! So the French team would start off the World Cup against Urguay today.. My bet is obvious. I think in group A the French are the strongest. Allez les bleu! The fever rises! It will be a french fete this evening!
Take a look at the group play below:

WORLD CUP 2010!

Posted by : Jegan
Date :Friday, June 11, 2010
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Kiosk Gal!

| Tuesday, June 8, 2010
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Ok, lets' face it we have all tried to pick up the girl working a kiosk at the mall. One of the young saleswomen at that kiosk grabbed me by the hand and pulled me towards her until my hand rested on her chest. Then she rubbed lotion onto my fingers.I thought the next thing she was going to do was a lap dance...

I am not going to lie, it was a hard choice, but I did walk away not buying, but my friend, whom I shall not mention to save his face..(you better thank me) did end up buying a hand lotion!! for his supposedly sister!!! Anyway to elborate on our conversation after, my point is this; a beautiful sexy girl in the mall, randomly calling you over. You approach, and she's immediately flirting with you, asking questions to find out if you have a girlfriend, and batting her eyes in a way that could even charm Richard Simmons.Within a minute, she's pushing you with perfume, hand cream, whatever beauty products she happens to be selling. Now,.. if you're a mark,.. you're already glancing over the kiosk at bottles of crap you don't know the first thing about, and planning what you're going to buy to make her happy.

After all, this girl likes you, and you don't want to let her down. Maybe buying something will really impress her... right? She could be all yours, and the only thing standing in your way is a $20 bottle of anti-aging solution.WAKE UP!!This girl is not INTO you. This girl is using " you. Why else would a well dressed, attractive girl be working at a mall kiosk? ..because she's a good salesperson and makes tons of money because she's on commission. She's not desperate to meet guys.. after all, she's got looks and personality. When she's at the bar on her personal time, she can pick up a guy 10 times over in the course of the night without so much as lifting a finger.

This girl is no different than a stripper that hasn't lost the entirety of her self esteem yet.. and good for her if she keeps roping in poor saps!So this is lesson 1, and it doesn't apply ONLY to these kiosk girls.. random women do not often approach men and flirt with them. When they do, they WANT something from you. Don't even give them the time of day. Only after enough of us show them that their looks are not the ULTIMATE power binding the galaxy will they resort to taking off their clothes for cash, selling the miniscule scraps of dignity they can manage to scrape up from the bottom of their souls, until they're one day spit out the bottom of the pile.. old and used up,.. and well beyond the days when they could have had a respectable man in their lives...and when that day comes.. you'll know that you helped get revenge on a woman who made a living off of taking advantage of men.

Kiosk Gal!

Posted by : Jegan
Date :Tuesday, June 8, 2010
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Beach 2.0

| Saturday, June 5, 2010
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I have decided that this summer I am going to spend a lot, I mean a lot of time in the water :) And so...what did I do yesterday? To celebrate the first official day of summer? I played in the sand, swam, napped in the sun (well, just sat there for a while), and frolicked (yes, frolicked) by the shore with my bro and friends. And this time, the camera came too.

In all of my life spent by the shore, and all of my days spent on a beach or in the ocean's waters, I never fail to be humbled, awed, and inspired by the beauty and mystery that lies at the ocean's edge. In fact, it seems that those feeling just grow deeper from year to year, and more meaningful as I share them with the ones I love.
Cheers to another season by the shore!

Beach 2.0

Posted by : Jegan
Date :Saturday, June 5, 2010
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