First

Help yourself first.. then come/assist others; moto of the mankind of today. Isn't that announcement made on every airplane ride you've ever been on? Help yourself and then assist others.

I believe that's where we many times wore ourselves out and discouraged our ownselves mentally and emotionally, because we overextended, trying to help other people when we ourselves are needy.
I say spare me that ‘it happens for a reason’
Shit. No ‘God’ pre-packages my life
like mom did for school lunch..