Controlled!?

When someone tells me that I'm really smart; I love it! Then someone else tells me that I'm dumb. I get upset and find it so hard to be outsmarted. I wondered why?

Maybe because at the end of the day I know I'm smart, but find it hard to realize that there are people who will outsmart me and that they always wanted to be ahead of me. So then I realize my life is like a competition, I'm controlled by this competition.

So are you! Our competition starts from the reproductive tract..still controlled!?