One of my friend/fellow blogger,
Amit had a post today about friendship with a question. So I am going to try and answer him... But first his question : how do u define a real friend ?
There are a lot of answers to that, this is some of what I think:
True friendship is respect. if the person doesn't respect you first the rest will never come.
A real friend is someone you can trust.
A simple friend identifies himself when he calls.
A real friend doesn't have to.
A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and stays late to help you clean.
Someone has said that if a person has two or three real, true friends, they are indeed blessed. I am----are you ?
Maybe this will help: a fwd I got a few years back..yeah I know..I tend to save some ..
Friends Through the Years...
As we have grown and changed so have our ideas on friendship....
1. In kindergarten your idea of a good friend was the person who let you
have the red crayon when all that was left was the ugly black one.
2. In first grade your idea of a good friend was the person who went to
the bathroom with you and held your hand as you walked through the scary
halls.
3. In second grade your idea of a good friend was the person who helped
you stand up to the class bully.
4. In third grade your idea of a good friend was the person who shared
their lunch with you when you forgot yours on the bus.
5. In fourth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who was
willing to switch square dancing partners in gym so you wouldn't have to
be stuck do-si-do-ing with nasty Nicky or smelly Susan.
6. In fifth grade your idea of a friend was the person who saved a seat
on the back of the bus for you.
7. In sixth grade your idea of a friend was the person who went up to
nick or Susan, your new crush, and asked them to dance with you, so that
if they said no you wouldn't have to be embarrassed.
8. In seventh grade your idea of a friend was the person who let you
copy the social studies homework from the night before that you had
forgotten about.
9. In eighth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who helped
you pack up your stuffed animals and old baseball cards so that your room
would be a "high schooler's" room, but didn't laugh at you when you
finished and broke out in tears.
10. In ninth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who went
with you to that "cool" party thrown by a senior so you wouldn't wind up
being the only freshman there.
11. In tenth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who changed
their schedule so you would have someone to sit with at lunch.
12. In eleventh grade your idea of a good friend was the person who gave
you rides in their new car, convinced your parents that you shouldn't be
grounded, consoled you when you broke up with nick or Susan, and found
you a date to the prom.
13. In twelfth grade your idea of a good friend was the person who
helped you pick out a college, assured you that you would get into that
college, helped you deal with your parents who were having a hard time
adjusting to the idea of letting you go....
14. At graduation your idea of a good friend was the person who was
crying on the inside but managed the biggest smile one could give as they
congratulated you.
15. The summer after twelfth grade your idea of a good friend was the
person who helped you clean up the bottles from that party, helped you
sneak out of the house when you just couldn't deal with your parents,
assured you that now that you and nick or you and Susan were back
together, you could make through anything, helped you pack up for college
and just silently hugged you as you looked through blurry eyes at 18 years
of memories you were leaving behind, and finally on those last days of
childhood, went out of their way to come over and send you off with a hug,
a lot of memories, reassurance that you would make it in college as well
as you had these past 18 years, and most importantly sent you off to
college knowing you were loved.
16. Now, your idea of a good friend is still the person who gives you
the better of the two choices, holds your hand when your scared, helps you
fight off those who try to take advantage of you, thinks of you at times
when you are not there, reminds you of what you have forgotten, helps you
put the past behind you but understands when you need to hold on to it a
little longer, stays with you so that you have confidence, goes out of
their way to make time for you, helps you clear up your mistakes, helps
you deal with pressure from others, smiles for you when they are sad,
helps you become a better person, and most importantly loves you.!
